"What About Change Do People Fear?": Tamarah's Closet

 

There are so many wonderful reasons to change, and yet still so many people resist it at all costs.  What exactly are you afraid of.  Resistance usually comes from fear of what one will have to give up.  But what are you really giving up?  What about change do people fear the most?

 

"What About Change Do People Fear the Most?"

 

If you are wanting to make life changes that would give you more choices, a more balanced well being and more abundance in your life, would you not be willing to give up or better yet, make some tiny adjustments?   If Publisher’s Clearing House knocked on our door and said we have a check for $1,000,000 made out to you, but in order for you to cash it you must give up 2 hours a night of television for the next 6 months, would you do it?

 

I think most people would!   So that proves my point.  It’s not change you are afraid of it’s what you have to do in place of the thing that you are giving up.   It’s learning something new which is another common fear of many people.   

 

I am amazed at the number of people who are fearful of learning something new.  What about that makes a person scared.  That, my friend, is the fear of failure.  What if it doesn’t work?  But what if it does?  So still, what about change do people fear the most?

 

So I ask you again, “what are you afraid of giving up?”   Usually when someone goes after their dreams, they quickly adjust to a new schedule and find that they end of having more time, because what happens is you use your timely more wisely.  You make better use of your time and therefore you end up with more time to do the things you love.  Once procrastination dies there is all kinds of time!

 

It's amazing how things work like that!  Once I move forward I find that I have all kinds of time.   It's the procrastination that kills time, not change!  So with that said, you are going to all of the sudden be able to find time to spend with your hobbies or friends and family, or you all of the sudden have more time with the kids.  The reason you do, is because you become more aware of time, more productive in the time you have and also you enjoy your time more because you appreciate it.

 

Make some change in your life today.  Even the smallest of changes can give you big results.  Let go of the fear of change and start embracing it.  Your life depends on you, so why not give yourself the best life possible.

 

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Focus on Change, Instead of Results

 

As I was having my morning coffee today, I was thinking about my dreams and my future.   It led me to thinking about change and how it effects our results in life.  We live in a world of “instant gratification” due to the average person being “too busy” to take time out and smell the roses.

 

I wonder if people really think about what they mean when they say “I don’t have time.”   What do you mean when you say that?   If everyone made a decision to be honest with themselves, they would realize that they do indeed have time to do a lot of things that go left undone.   Social media has given way to that secret in itself.

 

Think of the hours you spend on social media posting every single move you make throughout the day.  From the time you get up in the morning and the time you go to bed at night, you probably are either posting something on facebook or reading what others have posted and engage in back and forth conversations in a comment thread.

 

Now if you are a marketer and using social media to market and network, that's a different ball game, but even then, you can get carried away with dristractions.

 

Perhaps you are not on social media.  How much time do you spend in front of the television each night watching countless television series, sitcoms and reality tv programs?  

 

I can always sit down and think about time I have wasted with distractions or delays in moving into action.  The first step is coming out of denial and into reality.  Once you admit to yourself that change should and could improve or take place, then the next step is to write down the things that you want to do each day. 

 

There are solid things, “must do’s” that you will do each day automatic.  These are things like get up, have your coffee, walk the dog, exercise check your emails, perhaps get your kids off to school etc.   Then there will also be things that you will do that may differ a bit each day according to whether you have a full time or part time job to take care of and the demands of that schedule. 

 

For instance, me, I work part-time in a salon so the days I am at the salon, my work in my home base business and my other projects  would differ on those days, as far as the schedule of things.   I would have to work my home business around my day in the salon, so I should prepare for that in advance, like get up earlier and do the “must do’s” a bit earlier in the day.   Those are things on my list of change!  You've got to have a "change list."

 

It gets easier.  Sometimes I start with one area if I am feeling overwhelmed.  I might focus on getting a better schedule with my exercise.  I like to do it early in the morning so that the rest of the day is mine.  I can get up, work out, shower, put on my makeup and I am ready for whatever the day brings to me!   There are always interruptions, but if you start early and prepare, that’s 3 things you’ve taken care of.  You’ve gotten up early, worked out and showered!

 

I went through an odd state, where I wasn’t getting my exercise in early and it really through my day off to be doing it in the middle of the day.  I found that I would procrastinate the exercise longer and longer through the day, and therefore I hadn’t showered or gotten my makeup on.  This really threw my day off!

 

So what I have done is focused on making that big change in my day, getting up earlier and getting in my workout, shower and makeup and it gets easier everyday.  Then I start by adding to it, with some more “must do’s” .  Some which would be reading something inspirational and then listening to audio.  Those are things required to be successful in any venture and so by getting them in earlier I have the rest of the day to create.

 

For me it’s easier to do things in a “building block” fashion.  I had a really tough start of the year with health issues, so adding things of focus onto my day keeps me from feeling overwhelmed at all that I have to get done early in the day.

 

This may help you as well, to do things in a “building block” format, or layering.   If you try to get too much in too early, when not accustomed to doing so, you might feel overwhelmed to the point of paralyzing yourself into doing nothing.  This brings in feeling of “I failed at that” and often is followed by defeat, then giving up!

 

 

The next big tip I could give is to quick focusing on the results.  We want to see the results so much that we forget to focus on the “change”.  This is why most people fail.  They are so focused on “what’s not happening” that they are making the necessary changes in themselves that is required to see the results.

 

Change Your Focus From Results to Changing Yourself

 

Shift your focus on changing yourself.  Focus on change instead of reults.  That is what will sneak in bit by bit, the results you have been looking for.   When you change yourself, by letting go of old habits and developing new and healthier ones, then your results would miraculously appear!

 

I hope you got some value from my blog post today.  I know I sure have.  The best way to learn is to teach!   My blog helps me as much as I hope that it is helping you.   We always will be evolving and growing because we will never be perfect, no matter how long we have been on our journey.  Everyone slips, even the greatest of success stories!  It’s getting back up on the saddle again that counts!

 

Change is good!  Change is inevitable, so why not let it be your choice.  When we focus on change instead of results too, we automatically change things we weren't even aware that needed changing.  It's a snowball effect! 

 

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"Success Anytime, Anywhere, and at Any Age":  Tamarah's Closet

 

I remember years ago, I was with another realtor showing a couple developers a piece of property, a golf course actually, and the wife of the developer and I were sitting next to each other in the back seat of the golf cart.

 

She looked at me and asked me what I was doing for the rest of my life.  I was a little stunned and couldn't really answer her.  She then said, "where would you like to be in the next 5 years?"   Well, I couldn't answer that either.  Interesting because sometimes I think we think we are doing what we want to do, or what we feel we are suppose to, and yet when someone asks that question, we can't always answer it.

 

For the first time in my life I can truly answer that question and it makes me feel truly alive!   If I am not dreaming then I am not living!   It feels good to know where I am going!   I don't have to know exactly how I am getting there, and neither do you.  I just know that I am.  

 

You Can Have Success Anytime, Anywhere and at Any Age

 

So what are you doing the rest of your life?  Have you given it much thought?  Do you want to be doing what you are doing right now, or do you have a plan that is different from where you currently are?

 

It's okay if you can't answer it, as long as you take the time to feel about how your current circumstances makes you feel, 5 years or 10 years down the road.   You may not have thought about it.  You may be afraid to think about it.  That's okay too.

 

Too many people have given up on their dreams.  They find excuses, like the fact that they have children and they are focused on the kids right now.  Some blame their job and say that they just don't have time because of work to dream, and then some even pretend that they love their job and that they are doing what they dreamed of, yet you can see it in their eyes that they don't.  

 


Some people say they can't go after their dreams because of where they live or that the timing isn't right, and perhaps another place, another time.   Well, you can have "success anytime, anywhere and at any age"

 

It's true, some people just seem to think that they are too old and that things just didn't work out they way they hoped when they were young.  They blame the fact that they aren't living their dream because that was a dream they had when they were young and now they are an adult, and so now the dream seems silly.

 

You're Never too Old to Have Success

 

Well, you are never too young or too old to begin again.  You are never too old to go after your dreams, or to create new dreams.   If any of these scenarios sound like you, then it's time to realize that we get one chance at life and why would you ever give up on a dream?  It's why you came here!  It's why we all are here.  

 

We are here to experience the "human experience" and all the emotions, and part of the experience of being human is having dreams and then going after them.   There isn't a silly dream.  There isn't an impossible dream.  There is only BELIEF and belief is what will get you there.  

 

Once you begin to believe that you can have success anytime, anywhere and at any age , then the right people, the right opportunities will appear and you will be at the right place, at the right time & at the right age!

 

Enjoy my video above and hopefully it will inspire you and give you ideas about dreaming.  Life begins when we make a decision to dream and then work towards them!   Dreaming is something only we as humans can do, so why take a gift from GOD so lightly?   It's time to get serious about your dreams! 

 

As I mentioned I don't know exactly how I am getting there, but I have found the vehicle that is creating the resources, not to mention, a whole new skill set, as well as some incredible contacts through people I am meeting along the way!

 

You see, the thing about making a decision to go after you dreams is, you begin to attract the most amazing people and opportunities into your life that you wouldn't have met or had, otherwise. 

 

One new person leads to 3 new people, leads to new opportunities coming out of the woodwork.  If you would like more information about what I am doing to crreate my dreams then request a FREE VIDEO here. 

 

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You Could be the Next "Rags to Riches" Story:  Tamarah's Closet

 

I love hearing about amazing success stories, especially when they are “rags to riches” stories.  It always awakens something fiery in my heart.   When you hear how people overcome unbelievable circumstances into a complete 360 degree turn around, it just makes you go “wow, there must be a GOD!   Who knows, you could be the next "rags to riches" story and I'll write about you in Tamarah's Closet!

 

 

Now, I don’t doubt there is a God and never have, but many people have, until they see miracles happen.  I like this story as it is how Joel Osteen starts out the first chapter in his latest book, “You Can, You Will” and here it goes: 

 

There was a man who dreamed of being an actor.  He was young and back in the early 80's he just wasn’t getting the parts he wanted.

 

Jim Carrey's "Rags to Riches Story

He drove an old beat up car and one day he took a drive to the top of a hill that overlooked Los Angeles.  He did something crazy at the top of that hill.   He wrote himself a check for $10 million dollars and at the bottom he put "for Acting services rendered."

 

He grew up so poor that his family at one time, lived in an old Volkswagen van.  He put the check he wrote in his wallet and carried it with him.    Each time he hit an obstacle or felt defeated

he pulled out that check and read it as to remind himself of his dream.

 

You Could be the Next "Rags to Riches" Story:  Tamarah's Closet

 

 

About 12 years later that same man, Jim Carrey was making between $15 to $25 million a movie.  That is the power of a dream and keeping your vision in front of you.

 


This type of story makes you realize the power of a vision, the power of a strong desire to achieve a dream and the power of hope and never giving up.

 

This is what it takes to achieve dreams, especially big ones!   I read in a book once that the bigger the dream, the bigger the obstacles and I guess it makes sense.   When you have a dream that is so incredibly big there are going to be learning curves and most of all, there will be huge obstacles from other people telling you “that you can’t do it” and that “you don’t have what it takes!”

 

 

Are you ready for the challenge?  Are you strong enough?   Do you have your vision out in front of you, like Jim Carrey did? 

 

 

You have to make your dream so amazing that you can’t imagine life without it, because if your dream is small, there will be no motivation to drive you to achieve it! 

 

Be the Next "Rags to Riches Story in Tamarah's Closet
 

 

I love the life I am living now!  I am happier, in many ways, than I ever have been and it’s kind of strange.  I am not in love, I am not at my desired destination yet, but I finally KNOW that my dream is coming to me.  I am free to go after my dream for the first time in my life and there is no one standing in my way!  

 

It is very freeing when you finally realize that you truly can have everything you desire, and that all you have to do is BELIEVE it.  Read books by successful people and they all say the same thing.  Success is 80% psychology (mindset) and 20% skills.

 


Start working harder on yourself than anything else you do and you have got yourself off to a great start!   It takes a lot of personal development to withstand the course of the journey. 

 

It’s all worth it and I am glad I made the choice in life to not to be average.  I have never been average and always felt like I didn’t fit in, and then when I started reading about success stories I learned that was actually a common trait.

 

If you know you are different and you believe you have what it takes, maybe it’s time for you to step out!  Start finding your passion and pull out those dreams again that you’ve had secretly tucked away and start living your life on purpose!

 

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Red Lips For the Holidays!":  Tamarah's Closet

 

Time to get the RED LIPS out again!   Nothing packs POWER like a pair of RED LIPS!  While red lips are great all year long, it’s just even more fun to wear "Red Lips for the Holidays to brighten up the winter gloom!

 

Red is a color that speaks volumes and it takes a confident woman to wear red!  It is a POWER color and great to wear, when you want to “take on the world!”

 

Red Lips For the Holidays!":  Tamarah's Closet

 

 

 

I read once, that if you want to make a confident stand, wear RED!   So pull out those red tube of lipsticks you’ve been afraid to wear and paint that pout RED this holiday season!

 

Paint those Lips Red for the Holidays!

 

Are you a woman of confidence and courage?  Do you feel like there is a burning desire deep down within you to step up and take a stand in your life?  Maybe you have been wanting to rock the world by doing becoming a entrepreneur and test the waters of freedom from corporate America. 

 

Women leaders are the new sexy and if you think you have what it takes to become an entrepreneur, start a business from home that has the potential to create you a 6 and 7 figure income, while still having a life, then register here for a FREE video!   You will then be connected to me, can ask me questions and I can see if you qualify for my team! 

 

I look forward to connecting with you and if you think RED is powerful then wait til you start your own business from home!

 

To your success and rock it!

 

Tamarah

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