You Gotta Love Yourself First As a Woman! :  Tamarah's Closet

 

We are fabulous beings in this world as women.  We are the nurturers and the lovers of the universe, I believe.   We are also very powerful and great leaders, as I believe it takes a great amount of love and compassion to be a true leader.

 

As women we are so busy trying to save the world, taking care of things and keeping the families together, as well as our friendships, and sometimes we just get in overload.

 

I think our biggest mistake is often  in our busy world we forget to take the time to love ourselves.  We are the peacemakers and often ridiculed of being the jealous of mankind, but the interesting thing is when it gets down to the nitty gritty of things, even the jealousies are pushed aside when there is a woman in need.   We are the forgiving spirits of the world.   We can quibble and quarrel and somehow we always find our way back to each other and find the peace again. 

 

I spent so much of my life trying to please my partner and be what I thought they wanted me to be, never really getting to know myself.  I was one person with one man, and another with someone else, never able to figure it all out, and who I was suppose to be.  We do that as women, always wanting to be perfect when all we really need to be, is ourselves.

 

You must find who you are and allow that person to shine through and let go of the need to please others.,   When you are your authentic self, the right people will enter your life who are worthy of your love and your time. 

 

I believe we are the stronger spirits too.   We have had to fight our way over the years to rise up for equality and we are the caregivers and the peacemaker souls!   We can be in the middle of a crisis and the minute someone is in need, who is there first?  We are!

 

".....now we are at a new awakening."

 

At work we have had to fight our way to the top, and now we have arrived in the world of business.  We are no longer the frail being who was to stay at home and tend to the household needs, but now we are at a new awakening.

 

More and more of us are on a journey to change the world, one day at a time!   Sure, not all women care to be the CEO in the corporate world, but many of us are finding our way to the entrepreneurial world and realizing it’s time to fight for our freedom;  personal freedom as well as financial freedom.

 

More and more women are awakening to a new way of life and that is the life of financial freedom, to stand alone should ever the occasion arise.  We have grown to realize that depending on a man for our well being is not the path to happiness.  We want more and want more security of our own.

 

I have a wonderful vision of helping as many women rise to the top, by becoming independent both financially and emotionally.  I have travelled a tough journey to get where I am today and I am paving a new path of freedom for myself as well as all women who dare to journey with me.

 

I speak to women about creating the life they dream of, for the days of waiting for Prince Charming to sweep you off your feet are long gone.   A woman needs to sweep herself off her feet first!

 

We must learn to love ourselves first and all over again to endure life’s journey to it’s fullest.   I can tell you from experience that depending on Prince Charming, while romantic at first thought; Prince Charming can take your chocolate and flowers and turn them into bittersweet box of thorns!  Be prepared!

 

Until we learn to love ourselves fully, we continue to attract situations that put us in a place of devastation and abandonment, over and over again.  
 

There is a new woman awakening now, and she is smarter, more clever and independent!   She is still soft when she needs to be, yet there is power in her words.   She is wiser and she is a lover, and most of all she is a powerful giver and creator.

 

Where is your journey taking you these days?   Are you making time to love yourself first, or are you the rescuer?  Me, I wanted to save the world and save my partners, but you can’t save anyone until you love yourself and save yourself first!

 

I have found a new freedom and I have discovered new things about myself these last few months.   I have found a vehicle to take me to my dreams and I am taking as many women, and men, who dare to journey with me!

 

We no longer have to be abandoned with bitterness and live as a victim.  We can now create our own reality and rise above all obstacles.   There are still many good men out there, and once you learn to love yourself first, then the right one will enter your world at the right time.

 

First, take care of you!   Learn to love yourself, and the best way you can love yourself is to get to know yourself, and become the independent powerful woman you were always intended to be.  

 

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I hope you got some value from my blog today and thanks for stopping by.  Remember, "You gotta love yourself first as a woman!" : Tamarah's Closet

 

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"GOD SEES YOU SHINING, Even if the rest of the world doesn’t"  Tamarah’s Closet

 

 

The changes we make in this world are not always evident on the outside at first.  Fear not, though, because they are being noticed by God and the universe.  Perhaps you feel you have been working to better yourself and your life and nothing seems to be changing for you.

 

 

Changes aren’t always evident to the naked eye, especially our own.   If you feel you are working hard and not noticing anything, begin by journaling your days.   Journal your thoughts with gratitude and as you write, I bet you, you will begin to see and realize some changes that weren’t so evident to you at first. 

 

Also you will notice the way others react around you as you change.  You may notice people “noticing” you that didn’t before,  as well as you may notice those who feel threatened by you.  Even though the latter doesn’t seem appealing, what it means is, you are moving forward in the right upward direction, and sometimes this threatens others.

 

".....and the most important one to notice is God and the universe."

 

The first group may even point out have much you have changed or just smile at you as if they like what they see.   It’s not possible to change and go unnoticed and the most important one to notice is God and the universe, if you believe in a higher power. 

 

We often feel frustration when things don’t move as quickly as we like, but there is a timing in play and it doesn’t just involve one person.  It could be other people involved that timing has to line them up, or opportunities have to unfold as well as a certain amount of more growth to step up to a new level.

 

Patience is a virtue and if you can hang on to your faith and belief then that will speed things up.   You must keep moving forward to show your faith and expect each day that “today” is your day to shine.  If you go to bed at night and nothing in your eyes has shown itself, be thankful that you are one step closer to your miracles.  You never know when you could wake up and your life does a 360 degree turn around while you were sleeping. 

 

Having faith has always been the biggest challenge for many when they see nothing, but you must have faith during these times before you can see the good times!   You have to BELIEVE before you SEE!   It’s not the other way around.

 

What helps me is journaling, and journaling with gratitude each day about all the good things that have come my way.  By doing this you keep your focus on the positive, instead of the lack.   The only way your dreams come into reality is to focus on them as much as you can. 

 

Listening to audio, reading self-help books, reading books by successful people, all are great things to do to bring in the positive thoughts.   The other very important thing to do is to have fun along the way.  Don’t say, “when my dreams come in, I will….”.   You must do the things you love now to show your faith that you believe your dreams are coming to you.   It’s about enjoying your journey!

 

IF you would like to learn more about how you can create your dreams and even learn how to do it from the comforts of your home, just working an hour or two a day, then connect with me here for a free video.  Leave your best email that you want your video sent to.

 

You may have a dream but not the resources to make it happen so listen to this man as he talks on this video, about a wonderful vehicle that has helped thousands see their dreams.  

 

You can see your dreams, but you can’t just “wish” them in.  You must be willing to change and willing to put in time to develop your mindset and develop yourself as a leader.   See our average incomes here.

 

I look forward to connecting with you and helping you find your passion!  Most of all enjoy your journey and enjoy your self discovery. 

 

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Be a subscriber here.    What you can expect:   you will receive emails from me; many that will be inspirational, in order to help you in your life’s journey.  I am a very creative person and I love to write about my passions, so with that said, you will also get some emails with  business tips, blog post on beauty tips,  and even some of my hobbies.   And mostly, because I love helping people see their full potential and use their talents to create wealth from home, you will  also get emails about how I create money from home.  Enjoy the ones you love and ignore those you don't.   It's that simple!

 

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The Strong Will Cry and Then Kick Ass!

 

I’ve been kicked around a few times in my life, by people, by jobs, by bosses, and by my own health, but I always get back up! 

 

The strongest of women and even men have shed many a tear!   In fact I believe the stronger you are, the more tears you have probably shed, because it is our challenges that build our strength and stamina!    

 

Don’t let anyone tell you, "you are weak", or "toughen up!"  Life will toughen you up on it’s own and those who withstand the test of time and all of life’s challenges are the brave! 

 

I have seen many people who appear to be strong on the outside, but they are the first to run and avoid the challenges whenever they appear.  

 

If they think something is tough, they will avoid it at all costs.   None of us want to invite challenges like it’s a pleasurable picnic, but you get to the point that after you have braved quite a few you say to yourself and to the world, “bring it on!”  

 

No one will break me, no matter how hard they try.  While I may shed a tear, I will come out kicking and screaming and fighting all the way!  Nothing gets the best of me.

 

".....they appear tough on the outside..."

 

You may have been here yourself.  Haven’t you had a friend tell you to “toughen up” or “pull yourself together?”    Think back, I ask you and I bet when you do, that person, or persons, are the weakest of all.   They appear tough on the outside, but they carry their egos around like it is some plaque on the wall to be proud of. 

 

You better learn to let go of the EGO or you will never succeed in this world.  Foolish pride will take you nowhere and your ego will defeat you in the end.

 

I have been to seminars where who seemed to be the strongest, let go and fell apart.   And you know what….they still were the strongest.  It is those who never show their vulnerability in this world that are the weak ones. 

 

The game of life will beat you if you don’t let that ego down!   Letting go is how we grow stronger and how we move forward and to let go, you must allow yourself to be vulnerable.  

 

I have overcome all obstacles, whether I wanted to go through them or not and I keep on going like the energizer bunny!    My EGO friends would say crying is weak, but my entrepreneurial friends call it EMPOWERMENT! 

 

If someone calls you weak, then remember "the strong will cry and then they kick ass!"  You are a winner!

 

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I look forward to your courage, your tears, your growth and your leadership!  Welcome to the brave world of entrepreneurs!

 

I am always looking for strong a women who want to step up and be a leader.   Not exluding you guys as you are welcome too!   I just love seeing women step up and become leaders as women are the ones to really change the world!

 

I love helping people get started with their dreams and have found a wonderful vehicle that is helping me on so many levels, and I believe it may be helpful to you as well.  So be sure to subscribe to me below.

 

Be a subscriber here.    What you can expect:   you will receive emails from me; many that will be inspirational, in order to help you in your life’s journey.  I am a very creative person and I love to write about my passions, so with that said, you will also get some emails with  business tips, blog post on beauty tips,  and even some of my hobbies.   And mostly, because I love helping people see their full potential and use their talents to create wealth from home, you will  also get emails about how I create money from home.  Enjoy the ones you love and ignore those you don't.   It's that simple!

 

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Robin Williams played the Game! “Are You Tough Enough for this Game of Life?” Tamarah's Closet

 

 

You’ve got to have a winning attitude for this game of life!   You either are in or you or OUT!  Which will it be fore you.   Are you tough enough for this game of life?   The game is to live your life to it’s full potential and that means using all you’ve got to live the life you deserve!
 

 

Do you know that most people in this world remain average because they believe that there isn’t enough money or success to go around and they put successful and wealthy people in a whole different category of the “untouchables?”

 

This is unheard of and unacceptable.  You have to have the courage to step out of the herd and MAKE your dreams come true.  You can’t just sit around an daydream about them and think something is going to happen on it’s own.  You must wait with expectancy, which mean actively waiting, knowing that they are coming and you show that faith by taking the steps each day to create them.

 

There are two types of actions that you must take when creating and that is your physical action of daily steps but you also have to have your virbational action, or better know is your faith.   If you are continually living in your old story of struggle and doubt and worry, then you will remain in struggle and doubt and worry forever.

 

Second, you must take inventory of who you are spending most of your time with.   Are the people you spend most of your time with in struggle, speaking of their struggles and using a poverty conscious mindset? 

 

If they are, and you are constantly chiming in then you will never leave your current circumstances.  You must speak differently, talk to different people; people who are on the same journey and you must stop talking about your problems and start talking about your vision.

 

"The herd wants to keep you there forever!"

 

To do this, it often requires you to leave the herd, or at least spend less time with them.   This scares the average person because they think they will be alone.  God will always provide you with people who match your vibration, and when you begain vibrating on a higher level of consciousness and awareness you will begin attracting people who are on that same level. 

 

Stop being afraid of leaving the herd so that you can live your dreams!   The herd wants to keep you there forever, and forever where you are, is where you will remain.

 

I love this quote by Robin Williams at the top of this blog.  He says "find your walk" and he's right.  You must find your own path, be proud and walk it!  What if he stayed in the herd and never ventured out of his shell.  He dared to be different, and he is “over the top” different, and look at this success story.   It is certainly sad that he felt the need to take his life, but those were other issues he never resolved that had nothing to do with his success.   May he rest in peace and Hollywood will be missing some great humor and a great actor.

 

So again, I ask you  “are you tough enough to play this game of life?”    You do have to be tough because when you dare to go after your dreams, those who don’t have the courage will try to break you down.   But are you willing to let other people’s insecurities and jealousies steel your dreams?  

 

It's obvious by Robin William's statment above that he was ridiculed and had a few naysayers lashing out at him.  He never let that get in his was, and he always appeared to be having fun in his career.  Thank God he left the herd!

 

No one has the right to do that, and believe me they will, but you must stand strong and plant yourself, ignore the naysayers, and be unstoppable.  This is why it’s often necessary to leave the herd.  I would rather be in a herd of successful entrepreneurs who are unstoppable any day than sitting around the television with a herd that is going nowhere!

 

People have this delusion that if you go after your dreams that you won’t have fun anymore!   I actually heard this statement on a Facebook comment one day.    She turned down an opportunity to create a better life because she said, “this is more fun” and she was speaking about playing around on Facebook.

 

I really thought that was sad, that someone would think it was more fun to “play” on social media 24/7 than to spend an hour or two a day to go after a dream that would give the the freedom of choice.   This delusion people have about success is that they no longer will have fun.  The funny thing is, while money isn’t the path to happiness, it is the route to more choices which brings in more fun and voila, more happiness! 

 

The bottom line is, the herd is lazy and fearful.   They don’t want to have to DO anything, which is why the “lottery mentality” of people looking for a quick fix has taken over, and they become lazy at the thought of giving up a little television for a period in order to create long term success, which in the end result will give them the time freedom they  are looking for to begin with.

 

Don’t fall into this delusion that success means giving up your freedom.  Look around at the average person and not one of them appears to be free.   Living from paycheck to paycheck and struggling to make ends meet, and having 2 or 3 jobs to survive is NOT freedom.

 

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I do hope you got some value and courage from my post today and thank you for stopping by my blog.  Continue to follow Tamarah’s Closet and my other blog turbotamarah.com.  Feel free to friend me on Facebook and connect there as well.    If you are tough enough for this game of life, then connect with me here.

 

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Can You Hear Me?

 

We’ve all been through tough times in our lives where we experience great pain through different sources.  The loss of a loved one, a separation from a partner or spouse, divorce, the loss of a pet or child; but whatever the loss we get so caught up in the pain that we feel that the God and the universe doesn’t hear our cries.

 

 Well you are heard, but you have to pick yourself up!  No one else will do it for you!   You have to be your own leader and dust yourself off and begin again, each day that you get up!  Next time you say, “can you hear me” know that God can hear you and what you seek, you will find!

 

Our pain, as great as it may be can be embraced as a loving warm blanket wrapped around us with a hot cup of cocoa if you please.   While that sounds crazy, but hear me out.   The pain you may be experiencing in life is not there to destroy or defeat you but to enlighten you to a new level of growth.  

 

I like to think of pain as a stepping stone to the next level in life and it’s there to prep us for what greatness is to come.   Our pain is where we learn the most lessons.   We learn the most wonderful and powerful meaning of love, when are heart is the most broken.

 

We learn about our most valuable purpose in life, when we experience the death of a loved one.    The greatest lessons about success and empowerment are learned through our greatest struggles and in the loss of a business.    We just have to be open to what the lessons really are, and be willing to learn to embrace them for everything they are worth.

 

When I lost the day spa, my marriage, and my mother died all at the same time, I felt defeated at first and lost.   The three biggest traumas that a person goes through in life are death, the loss of a business and divorce and they attacked me all at once!  I remember my doctor saying to me, “I can’t even believe you are still standing and smiling, and not sick.”

 

I was smiling on the outside, but inside I felt the greatest pain I had ever endured.   I did not know what had happened to my world.   My world has completely crumbled and I felt alone and cheated out of my life and my dreams and I there was a part of me that was lost forever, or so I thought.     I knew I was strong but some days I thought “how will I ever go on and how will I ever overcome this?”

 

I did.  And we do, and you will, if you are someone who is experiencing a great loss.    Pain is a part of life and you don’t get to pass it, or skip by it.  We came into this world to experience the human experience and and that mean we came to experience pain.  Without pain, we would never know joy!

 

You CAN begin again, and I did.   My greatest accomplishments, through failing in the past, are leading me to my greatest dreams that I have only dared to dream of.     Nothing is too great to overcome and from our failures, we birth our greatest and most powerful successes!   

 

You get up each day and you focus on where you are going.  You remember the wonderful things about your past accomplishments and what you learned from them and you move forward with a “knowing” and expectation that you are going to be your greatest success story of all time!  

 

 You have that winning attitude of “I’m not going down because I have the most powerful being that has my back!”    If you are spiritual and believe in God then that is all you need to be successful.   I believe God uses our biggest traumas to thrust us into our greatest success stories!  

 

I am a winner and a fighter and I am a survivor and I am tenacious!   I never stay down and I am the leader that many would be blessed to have.   You take on that attitude in life and you can overcome any and all obstacles that are thrown in your path.

 

People may try to break you, but you will overcome them.  When I began to open the day spa, I remember the obstacles that kept popping up.  There were jealous people out there who were doing everything they could to keep me from opening. 

 

One person even called the city and told them I didn’t have enough parking spaces.  The city called me, and I went in and they told me an anonymous caller called in. 

 

They said it was probably a jealous competitor but they had to check it out!   I indeed proved that I had the parking places to open my business and you know what?   I opened my business the exact day that I said I would open!

 

I overcame that and many other obstacles and I made it!  The business was successful, but due to some unforeseen circumstances of the time, I had to close it a couple years into it.   But there isn’t a minute that goes by that I am not still proud of my accomplishment.  I did what most people never have the courage to do and I did it well!

 

".....and I'm still standing stronger than ever."
 

 

Most of all, I learned a lot about myself and the fact that I was truly, and still am, a leader, and I learned about opening a business and I learned about all the things that go along with it.  

 

I learned what I was made of, from the planning, to the opening, to the running of the business and to the closing of the business.   I am still standing stronger than ever!

 

Whatever obstacles you may think you can’t overcome in your life;  well I am here to tell you that you CAN!  There is nothing too great for you to overcome and if you have faith in God and the universe, then you have the most powerful One backing you!

 

God had my back and he sure as heck has yours!   Let  go of your inhibitions and start getting yourself out there and going after your dreams!   Dreams were made to live, not just think about!   Don’t be a window gazer with your dreams, be a dream getter!

 

Go fast and furious and start living the live that you were designed to live!   Maybe you are ready to begin again and you don’t have the courage or you are still saying to the universe “can you hear me.”   The universe will hear you when you step louder into the future instead of remaining in the past.

 

I have found wonderful things out about myself and I have discovered an incredible new vehicle that is taking me to my dreams.  Through this vehicle I have discovered the most amazing talents about myself, that I never knew I had.   This can be your vehicle that can take you from your past to your future, if you are willing to step into your courage again.  

 

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So, can you hear me?   I can hear you! 

 

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